So does my husband care?or does he just want out?men please help?

My husband and i have been married for 3 years we have had alot of problems since day 1 it seems,He has lied to my face,never helps me out,cleans sometimes if im lucky,has cooked like 6 times,but that was cus i was too tired,dident want to help me when i had our son just played vid games when i just had my son while im working my off,i went back to work 2 days after having our son and i worked right up untill the night i had him,and of course no help really from my husband i run my own business and i mean by that im a glorified slave because i work my off,then i come home to just work some more cook clean ect,he told me it would be a holiday when he went back to work after taking paternaty for 1.5 months when i really needed his help for longer,plus i make 3 times more money so its not like he was in dire straights to go back to work but the funny thing he makes me feel guilty about wanting to give up my business and be a mom and clean cook ect,instead its like he expects me to do it all,i seriously cant handel it anymore and i have told him i cant but he just asks me why im so bitchy and snappy,i honestly am lucky to get 2 hrs sleep per night,because i go to work come home and have to take care of our son while he gets to sleep,but i have to respect him when he works and let him sleep all day while i look after our child then i go to work till 2 am then i come home and take care of our son some more and my husband ignores the fact that ive been awake and just goes and does what he wants like works in the grage plays video games or quadding ect i just am so exhuasted do you men who are married do the same???expect so much your wife?